Resource Hub
Curated tools, books, therapists, lawyers, and communities — vetted by guys who've actually used them.
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Find a Lawyer
Avvo
Search and compare divorce lawyers by location, reviews, and practice area. Free consultations available.
Martindale-Hubbell
Peer-rated lawyer directory. Filter by family law and read detailed attorney profiles.
American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers
Find board-certified family law specialists. These lawyers focus exclusively on divorce.
LegalZoom
Online legal services for uncontested divorces. Good option if you and your spouse agree on terms.
Find a Therapist
Psychology Today Therapist Finder
The go-to directory for finding therapists. Filter by specialty, insurance, and gender.
BetterHelp
Online therapy from your phone. Flexible scheduling, messaging between sessions. Good for guys who hate waiting rooms.
Open Path Collective
Affordable therapy ($30-$80/session) for people without full insurance coverage.
Books
Splitting by Bill Eddy
The book on divorcing a high-conflict personality. Practical strategies for protecting yourself.
The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce by Judith Wallerstein
Understand the long-term impact of divorce on kids. Changes how you approach co-parenting.
Rebuilding by Bruce Fisher
Step-by-step guide to rebuilding your life after divorce. Covers the emotional stages you'll go through.
The Co-Parenting Handbook by Karen Bonnell
Practical co-parenting strategies that actually work. Covers communication, schedules, and conflict.
Dad's Divorce by Joseph Cordell
Written specifically for men. Covers legal strategy, custody, and protecting your rights as a father.
Co-Parenting Tools
OurFamilyWizard
The most-used co-parenting app. Shared calendar, expense tracking, and messaging — all court-admissible.
Talking Parents
Free co-parenting communication app. Timestamped, uneditable messages. Great for documentation.
Cozi Family Organizer
Shared family calendar and to-do lists. Free and simple. Good for keeping schedules straight.
Support Communities
r/Divorce (Reddit)
Active community of people going through it. Real stories, real advice, real support. Anonymous.
DadsDivorce.com Forum
Forum specifically for divorcing fathers. Legal questions, custody strategy, and emotional support.
DivorceCare
In-person support groups at churches and community centers nationwide. 13-week program. No judgment.
National Parents Organization
Advocacy for shared parenting and fathers' rights. Resources, research, and state-by-state law summaries.
Financial Tools
Mint / Credit Karma
Free financial tracking. See all your accounts in one place. Essential for understanding your full financial picture.
YNAB (You Need a Budget)
Budgeting app built for tight times. Forces you to assign every dollar a job. Life-changing for post-divorce finances.
DivorceNet Financial Calculator
Free calculator for estimating alimony, child support, and asset division in your state.
Empower (formerly Personal Capital)
Free investment tracking and retirement planning. See how divorce impacts your long-term financial picture.
Podcasts
Divorce and Your Money
Financial planning podcast for divorce. Covers asset division, taxes, retirement accounts, and rebuilding.
Over and Out
Casual, real-talk podcast about life during and after divorce. Hosted by people who get it.
The Divorced Dad's Club
Podcast for divorced dads navigating co-parenting, dating, and building a new life.